Relationship Reckoning TV Show

Relationship Reckoning
With Paula M. Kramer

Should You Stay?
Should You Limit?
Should You Go?

You Decide.

Relationship Reckoning provides insights to help you make decisions about your relationships, any kind of relationship. Watching each episode will give you many insights into your various relationships. Some of the insights will surprise you.

Paula features one relationship per show.

Insights include:

Behavior style similarities

Behavior style differences

Behavior style needs to nurture for each of you

Paula’s insights

Guiding value similarities

Guiding value differences

Guiding value passions to nurture for each of you

Paula’s insights

Explaining your behavior style needs and guiding value passions is one way to nurture yourself.

Disc Behavior Styles

DISC behavior styles can be identified through observable behavior. Everyone is a combination of all 4 behavior styles. Most of us have a High behavior style, a Secondary High behavior style, and two Low behavior styles. Behavior styles can be graphed. This has more information.

DISC Behavior Graph

Spranger Guiding Values

Everyone feels some influence from multiple values. The 6 Spranger values can rank from important to unimportant:

Guiding our decisions and actions

Situational

Split (according to people or task orientation)

Negative

Neutral

Values are difficult to rank for other people, but the verbal clues will help you identify their 1st and possibly 2nd values.

This page has more information.

Spranger Value Ranking

Limit Or Go?

If you open doors, but the other person responds by…

Backstabbing you

Belittling you

Downplaying your successes

Failing to follow through on commitments

Failing to show you as much loyalty as you show them

Ignoring you

Gaslighting you

Laughing at you

Making fun of anything about you

Refusing to satisfy your needs and passions

Sabotaging you

Stereotyping you

…it’s time to decide if you should limit or go.

If you limit your relationship, continue opening doors to give bystanders reasons to support you.

Intro Script

Hi! I’m Paula M. Kramer.

Welcome to my Relationship Reckoning intro.

Each episode focuses on 1 relationship.

I explain similarities, differences, needs, and passions.

I explain how both people could open doors to relationship satisfaction.

At the end of this intro is a link to a website full of free information for your personal success and your professional success.

You could learn to identify your own DISC behavior style and Spranger guiding value combination.

You could learn to explain your behavior style needs and your guiding value passions.

You could learn to understand every relationship in your life.

Since you know people with each behavior style and each guiding value, you could learn something from every episode.

You could learn what you need to know to decide if you should stay, limit, or go.

Have a smiling day and give a smiling day!

Take positive control for yourself by satisfying your needs and your passions.

I took positive control and…

…eased my decades of depression.

…ended my 25 year eating disorder.

…ended my PTSD from a horrific childhood.

Protect yourself from backlash with positive control.

Backlash happens…

…when we don’t understand other people’s needs and passions.

…when other people don’t understand our behavior style and guiding value characteristics.

Learn the beneficial behaviors that reduce the chances of backlash.

See my website page…

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Episode PDFs

RR Episode #1 Susie
Romantic Relationship
DISC Behavior Styles
~High I Influence
~High S Steadiness
Spranger Guiding Values
~Belief
~Position

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