Relationship Reckoning TV Show

Relationship Reckoning
with Paula M. Kramer

Should You Stay? Should You Limit? Should You Go?
You Decide

Official launch in October 2022


One definition of reckoning is making a judgment. The show Relationship Reckoning provide insights to help you make judgments about your relationships.

Provide Paula M. Kramer with the information below, and she’ll consider featuring your relationship with insights you can use to make a relationship reckoning. If Paula does not choose your relationship to feature, you can still learn from her episodes about similar relationships.

Insights include:

Behavior style similarities

Behavior style differences

Behavior style needs to nurture for each of you

Guiding value similarities

Guiding value differences

Guiding value passions to nurture for each of you

Explaining your behavior style needs and guiding value passions is one way to nurture yourself.

If Paula does feature your relationship, she will email you the episode number.

You are welcome to give her a Reckoning Report to inform her of your judgment about your relationship and why you came to that judgment. Paula will share your report on occasional Reckoning Report episodes so others can learn  from you. Paula will share only your first name and the episode number.


Disc Behavior Styles

DISC behavior styles can be identified through observable behavior. Everyone is a combination of all 4 behavior styles. Most of us have a High behavior style, a Secondary High behavior style, and two Low behavior styles. Behavior styles can be graphed. The file below has more information.

DISC Behavior Graph


Spranger Guiding Values

Everyone feels some influence from multiple values. The 6 Spranger values can rank from important to unimportant:

Guiding our decisions and actions


Split (according to people or task orientation)



Values are difficult to rank for other people, but the verbal clues will help you identify their 1st and possibly 2nd values.

The file below has more information.

Spranger Value Ranking


I’m creating a form for submitting your relationship for consideration.


Reckoning Reports

If your relationship is featured on my show, please consider reporting on your stay, limit, or go decision.

Everyone watching Relationship Reckoning — including me — could learn from your decision.

I will add your decision and your comments about your decision to your Episode PDF.

Sending your decision to me means you are making a Reckoning Report.


Email Address For Your Reckoning Report

Put the episode number in your email subject line.


Episode S01 E13

Send your email to:


Reckoning Report Email Message

Explain your decision and the reason for your decision.


I left the relationship.

Our values were too different to stay together. We didn’t enjoy the same activities.

Also, he offered to help with a problem, but his help meant dismissing the severity of the problem.



This website has multiple resources to help you make decisions about your relationships in the event Paula does not choose to feature your relationship.

Watching Relationship Reckoning will help you understand how to use the information.


Paula M. Kramer’s Primary Website
Speaking From Triumph


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Updated May 12, 2022.